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A double ended dildo is a long, flexible sex toy with a shaped end at each side — designed either for shared penetrative play between two partners, or for solo use that combines two insertion points. Part of our wider Dildos NZ range, our New Zealand double ended dildo collection covers slim flexible bodies, dual-density silicone for body-realistic feel, and firmer rigid models for couples who want more control.
Double ended dildos are a favourite in the same-sex partner and adventurous-couples space because they remove the need for a harness, can be flexed to suit any position, and let both partners share movement and pace. Insertable lengths typically range from 13" up to 24". For solo use, look for a flexible silicone body that you can bend into a U-shape; for partner play, longer flexible designs work best.
Quick buying guide
- Length: 13" minimum for partner play, up to 24" for advanced
- Flexibility: bendable silicone for solo U-shape; firmer for couples
- Material: medical-grade silicone — body-safe, non-porous
- Lube: water-based only (silicone lube degrades silicone toys)
Couples vs solo use
Couples play: a longer flexible double-ended dildo lets both partners enjoy penetration simultaneously, with no harness needed. Each partner controls their own end; communication on pace and depth is essential.
Solo play: a shorter flexible body can be bent into a U-shape for double-entry (vaginal + anal), or each end can be used at separate times.
Flexible vs firm shafts
Flexible silicone: bends to suit any position, comfortable for both partners regardless of distance, easier for solo U-shape use.
Firm/rigid silicone: more direct sensation, requires partners to coordinate body position carefully, often preferred by experienced couples for the more solid feel.
Care and cleaning
Wash with warm water and mild fragrance-free soap before and after every use — both ends, paying close attention to the middle area. Silicone double-ended dildos can be boiled for three minutes for full sterilisation. Air-dry fully before storage; store coiled loosely (not folded sharply) to preserve flexibility.
Why shop double ended dildos at Naughty Hut
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Frequently asked questions
How does a double ended dildo work?
A double ended dildo has a shaped end at each side — both partners can use one end at the same time (no harness needed), or one person can bend it into a U-shape for solo dual-entry play. Flexible silicone is the most versatile material.
Can same-sex couples use a double ended dildo?
Yes — double ended dildos are popular with same-sex couples specifically because they remove the need for a harness and let both partners share penetration simultaneously.
Is a double ended dildo the same as a double penetration dildo?
No. A double ended dildo has one shaft with shaped ends on each side — used between two partners or for solo dual-entry. A double penetration dildo has two parallel shafts joined at a shared base for simultaneous vaginal and anal use by one person.
How do I clean a double ended dildo?
Wash both ends and the middle section with warm soapy water before and after every use. Silicone double-ended dildos can be boiled for three minutes for full sterilisation. Air-dry fully and store coiled loosely.
What size double ended dildo should beginners choose?
Start at 13–14" total length, slim girth (1–1.25" diameter), and flexible silicone. This gives both partners enough working length without overwhelming sizing, and the flexibility means you can adjust positions easily.
Find your double ended dildo above, or check out Strapless Strap Ons for a different couples-play option, or return to the main Dildos NZ hub. Discreet NZ delivery on every order.
Last updated: May 2026 · Reviewed by the Naughty Hut team.
