Strap on Dildos

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Strap on toys let you share the thrill, whoever wears them: pick an adjustable harness, a hollow strap-on or a complete harness-and-dildo kit. Everything ships in plain unmarked packaging, with free delivery on orders of $100 or more. If you are buying a strap on for the first time, a brief-style harness with a 5–6" silicone dildo is the setup that works.

A strap-on dildo is a harness-compatible sex toy that one partner wears for hands-free penetrative play. Part of our wider Dildos NZ range, our New Zealand strap-on collection includes full harness-and-dildo kits ready to use out of the box, harness-compatible dildos with O-ring or flared bases, vibrating strap-ons, and beginner-friendly pegging sets for couples exploring role-reversal.

Getting the harness right matters more than the dildo. Our strap-on harness buyer’s guide covers O-ring sizing, jock versus brief-style fits, and how to match a dildo to the harness you own.

Harness style matters: a jock-style harness (thong) gives the closest body contact, a brief-style harness is the most comfortable for longer sessions, and a thigh harness opens up entirely different angles. O-ring sizing matters too — most universal harnesses accept dildos with a 1.25–1.75" base diameter, but always check before you buy.

Shop strap on toys by type

Counts and prices read from the live catalogue, not a static list.

Type	Products	From	Best for
Harnesses (no dildo included)	10	$49.99	You already own a flared-base dildo
Complete harness + dildo kits	11	$46.99	First strap on — correctly sized out of the box
Hollow strap-ons	10	$38.99	Worn over the penis; works with a partial erection
Vibrating strap-ons	18	$82.99	Sensation for the wearer as well as the receiver
Strapless strap-ons	7	$74.99	No harness at all — held internally by the wearer
Pegging gear	37	$18.99	Beginner-sized dildos and couples pegging kits
Packers & packing underwear	12	$24.99	Worn for shape, not for penetration
Harness-compatible dildos	215	$15.99	Flared and suction-cup bases that fit a standard O-ring

Best strap ons in NZ right now — by situation

• Cheapest way in: Selopa Our First Hollow Strap-On — $38.99. No harness to fit, nothing to size; the entry point for couples testing the idea.
• Best first complete kit: Romp Piccolo Pegging Kit — $46.99. Harness and a beginner-sized dildo together, correctly matched.
• Best harness on its own: Basix Rubber Works Universal Harness — $53.99. Universal O-ring fit for dildos you already own.
• Best premium harness: Her Royal Harness The Regal Duchess — $82.99. Brief-style, adjustable, built for long sessions.
• Best vibrating strap on: Evolved Come Closer Vibrating Strap-On — $173.99. Remote-controlled, vibration for both partners.
• Best no-harness option: Fun Factory Share Lite — $74.99. Platinum silicone, held internally, the most affordable strapless in our range.

Strap on, strap on dildo, strap on toys — what each term means here

New Zealand shoppers use these interchangeably, so this page covers all of them. A strap on or strap on toy is the whole setup — harness plus dildo, or a one-piece hollow or strapless design. A strap on dildo is just the shaft: a flared or suction-cup base dildo that drops into a harness O-ring, which is why the harness-compatible dildo row above points at 215 shafts rather than at this page. If you want the no-harness version specifically, that is a strapless strap-on, a separate and much smaller range.

Quick buying guide

• First-time pick: brief-style harness + 5–6" silicone dildo
• O-ring size: universal harnesses fit 1.25–1.75" dildo bases
• Best lube: water-based (silicone lube degrades silicone toys)
• Material: medical-grade silicone shaft, durable adjustable harness

Harness styles explained

Jock-style (thong): closest body contact, minimal coverage, most movement. Best for active partner-led play.

Brief-style: full coverage like underwear, most comfortable for longer sessions. The best all-rounder for beginners.

Thigh harness: straps around the upper thigh — opens completely different positions and angles. Great for partners with mobility considerations or for solo play.

Harnesses are also the most common crossover point between strap-on play and power exchange — a harness, a pair of cuffs and a blindfold is one of the most-bought combinations in New Zealand. See the bondage & BDSM range for the restraint side of it.

Strapless strap-on: a separate category — see our Strapless Strap-On Dildos for no-harness options held internally by the wearer.

Hollow strap-on: worn over the penis rather than instead of it, so it works with a partial erection. It sits at the rigid end of the penis extension family and is the most reliable option for partnered sex when erection is unreliable.

Pegging — what to know

Pegging refers to a person using a strap-on to penetrate a male partner anally. It's one of the fastest-growing categories in NZ, driven by mainstream destigmatisation. For first-time pegging:

• Start with a smaller dildo (4–5" insertable, slim girth) — work up over multiple sessions
• Use generous amounts of water-based lube and reapply often
• Communicate constantly — go slow, check in, stop if anything is uncomfortable
• A brief-style harness is more comfortable for the wearer; a hollow strap-on accommodates wearers of all anatomies

Care and cleaning

Wash the dildo with warm water and mild soap before and after every use; silicone dildos can be boiled for three minutes. Hand-wash the harness in cold water with mild detergent and air-dry — don't machine-wash leather or neoprene components. Store the dildo and harness separately.

Why shop strap-ons at Naughty Hut

• 100% NZ brand, Kiwi-owned
• 100% discreet packaging — nothing on the parcel identifies the contents
• Discreet NZ-wide delivery, free on orders of $100 or more
• Cheapest in NZ — Price Beat Guarantee (terms apply)
• Verified R18 retailer: adults 18+ only (R18 policy)

Frequently asked questions

Where can I buy a strap on online in NZ?

At Naughty Hut. We list 55+ strap on toys — harnesses, hollow strap-ons, complete kits, vibrating and strapless designs — and ship them in plain unbranded packaging. Nothing on the courier label identifies the contents.

How much does a strap on cost in NZ?

The most affordable wearable strap on in our range is $38.99 (a hollow strap-on). A harness on its own starts at $49.99; a complete harness-and-dildo kit starts at $46.99; vibrating strap-ons start at $82.99 and strapless designs at $74.99. Delivery is free on orders of $100 or more.

What is a strap-on dildo?

A strap-on dildo is a harness-compatible dildo that one partner wears for hands-free penetrative play. The harness sits on the wearer's hips (or thigh) and holds the dildo in position via an O-ring or built-in pocket.

How do I choose a harness?

For first-time use, a brief-style harness with an adjustable waist and leg straps is the most comfortable all-rounder. Once you know what works, a jock-style harness gives closer contact, and a thigh harness unlocks completely different angles.

What size O-ring do I need?

Most universal harnesses ship with interchangeable O-rings in 1.25", 1.5" and 1.75" sizes — covering the base diameter of almost every silicone dildo in our range. Check the dildo's base measurement before buying.

Can any dildo be used as a strap-on?

Only dildos with a flared base (mushroom-style or wide flange) work safely in a strap-on harness. Dildos with a suction-cup base typically work too — the cup fits through the O-ring. Vibrating dildos with battery compartments at the base usually don't fit standard harnesses.

What's pegging?

Pegging is when a person uses a strap-on dildo to penetrate a male partner anally. It's increasingly mainstream in NZ and globally. For first-time pegging, start small (4–5" slim dildo), use generous water-based lube, and communicate throughout.

What's the best beginner strap-on NZ?

A brief-style adjustable harness paired with a 5–6" silicone dildo (around 1.25–1.5" diameter, smooth, slightly tapered) is the standard beginner setup. Many of our entry-level strap-on kits include both pieces sized correctly out of the box.

Choose your strap-on above, or explore Strapless Strap-On Dildos, Packers, and Realistic Dildos, browse pegging kits, or return to the main Dildos NZ hub. Discreet NZ-wide delivery on every order.

Strap-on brands in our range include CalExotics, Lovetoy and Sportsheets.

Updated September 2026 · product counts and prices verified against the live catalogue on 6 September 2026.