Sex Toys for Women: A Complete Guide

Whether you are buying your very first toy or adding to a small collection, the range of options can feel overwhelming at first glance. It does not need to be. This guide lays out the main types of toys women enjoy, how to think about choosing between them, and the couple of practical basics — materials and lube — that make everything more comfortable. It is warm, plain and shame-free, with nothing explicit.

Naughty Hut is 100% New Zealand-owned, ships NZ-wide and sends everything in plain, discreet packaging, so you can take your time deciding. Updated September 2026.

What is actually in stock as we write this: 462 female sex toys from $15.99, made up of 288 clitoral toys from $16.99, 215 rabbit vibrators from $26.99, 178 bullet vibrators from $16.99, 168 G-spot vibrators from $35.99, 43 love eggs from $16.99, 46 air-pulse suction toys from $40.99, 39 nipple toys from $19.99 and 29 kegel and ben wa sets from $15.99. Every count and price on this page was checked against live stock on the day it was updated.

Start with how you like to be touched

The most useful question is not "which toy is best?" but "what kind of sensation do I enjoy?" Broadly, stimulation falls into two families, and many toys focus on one or combine both:

• External — stimulation of the clitoris and surrounding area. Many people find this the most reliable route to pleasure.
• Internal — stimulation inside the vagina, including the area often called the G-spot.

Neither is better; they simply feel different, and knowing which you gravitate towards narrows the field immediately. The wider women's toys collection spans both if you would like to browse as you read.

The main types, explained

Clitoral and external toys

Because external stimulation is so reliable for many people, clitoral toys are one of the most popular starting points — 288 in stock from $16.99, our largest female sub-collection. This family includes small pinpoint vibrators, broader lay-on designs, and air-pulse toys (46 in stock from $40.99) that use gentle suction-like pulses rather than direct contact.

Bullet vibrators

A bullet vibrator is small, simple, discreet and precise — the classic first toy, and the cheapest way in: 178 in stock from $16.99 (the B Yours Silver Power Bullet). It is inexpensive enough to experiment with while you learn your preferences, and versatile enough to keep using long after.

Rabbit and dual-stimulation vibrators

If you enjoy internal and external stimulation together, a rabbit vibrator combines an insertable shaft with an external arm for the clitoris — 215 in stock from $26.99. The two-at-once sensation is why rabbits have stayed popular for decades.

Internal and G-spot toys

Curved vibrators and dildos are shaped to reach internal areas some people particularly enjoy. A curved, firm toy is designed with that angle in mind — G-spot vibrators, 168 in stock from $35.99.

Wearables, love eggs and pelvic floor

Two more families worth knowing about. Love eggs and vibrating panties (43 in stock from $16.99) are worn rather than held, for hands-free or partner-controlled play. Kegel and ben wa balls (29 in stock, weighted balls from $15.99) are pelvic-floor trainers rather than pleasure toys — useful postpartum, through menopause, or for bladder control, and they can make everything else feel more responsive. If penetration is uncomfortable rather than simply new, vaginal dilator kits (7 in stock from $34.99) and a pelvic floor physiotherapist are the right route, not a bigger toy.

Choosing your first toy

If you are starting from scratch, you cannot go far wrong with a small, simple external vibrator such as a bullet. Here is a quick way to match a first toy to what you already know about yourself:

There is no wrong answer, and most people build a small, varied collection over time as they learn what they enjoy.

Materials: choose non-porous

Material is the one technical thing genuinely worth caring about. Choose body-safe silicone, glass or steel — all non-porous, meaning they do not trap bacteria the way porous materials can, and all easy to clean. Avoid porous jelly for anything internal or long-term. For toys with motors, look for a splash- proof or waterproof rating to make cleaning simple.

Lube makes everything better

A good lubricant improves comfort and sensation for nearly every kind of play, and it is not a sign that anything is "wrong" — it is simply more comfortable. One compatibility rule to remember: silicone lube can degrade silicone toys, so pair silicone toys with a water-based lube. Water-based also rinses away easily, which makes clean-up faster.

Going at your own pace

A few gentle reminders that make the whole experience better:

• Start slow and low. Begin on a gentle setting and build up; you can always turn it up.
• Explore solo first. Learning your own preferences makes any future shared play easier and more fun.
• There is no "should". Preferences are personal. The best toy is the one that suits your body, not the one with the most features.

What a first toy costs in New Zealand

Real prices from live stock, not a range we made up:

• $15.99 — Fun Factory Smartball Uno, a single weighted kegel ball. The cheapest actual toy in the female range.
• $16.99 — B Yours Silver Power Bullet. The cheapest vibrator, and the standard first-toy recommendation.
• $26.99 — the entry rabbit vibrator.
• $35.99 — the entry G-spot vibrator.
• $40.99 — the entry air-pulse suction toy.
• $46.99 — Satisfyer Pro 2 Classic Blossom, the best-known air-pulse model we stock.
• $34.99 — the entry vaginal dilator set.

One warning about price filters on any adult site, ours included: the cheapest thing in a collection is often an accessory. The $4.99 entry in our female range is a storage pouch, and the $1,478.99 top of it is a sex sling that is mis-filed in the category. Read the product name, not just the number.

Free discreet delivery on NZ orders over $100, dispatched same or next business day in plain, unbranded packaging.

The takeaway

Pick a type that matches how you like to be touched, choose a body-safe material, keep some water-based lube on hand, and start gently. That is the whole recipe. From a simple bullet to a dual-stimulation rabbit, the right first toy is a small, low-pressure way to learn what you enjoy — at your own pace, in your own time.

Frequently asked questions

What is the best first sex toy for a woman?

A small, simple external vibrator such as a bullet is the most common recommendation. It is discreet, body-safe, easy to use and inexpensive enough to experiment with while you learn your preferences.

What is the difference between clitoral and internal toys?

Clitoral (external) toys stimulate the clitoris and surrounding area, which many people find the most reliable source of pleasure. Internal toys stimulate inside the vagina, including the G-spot area. They feel different, and many people enjoy both.

What is an air-pulse toy?

An air-pulse toy uses gentle, suction-like pulses of air around the clitoris rather than direct vibration. Many people find the sensation distinct from a traditional vibrator, which is why this style has become so popular.

What material should I choose?

Body-safe silicone, glass or steel — all non-porous and easy to clean. Avoid porous jelly for internal or long-term use. For motorised toys, a waterproof rating makes cleaning easier.

Do I need lube?

It is strongly recommended for comfort and sensation. Use a water-based lube with silicone toys, since silicone lube can degrade a silicone surface over time. Water-based also rinses off easily. There are 300 lubricants in stock from $3.99.

Where can I buy female sex toys in New Zealand?

From Naughty Hut at naughtyhut.co.nz. The female sex toys collection holds 462 products in stock, from $15.99, shipped NZ-wide in plain unbranded packaging with free delivery over $100.

What is the cheapest sex toy for her?

A bullet vibrator at $16.99, or a single weighted kegel ball at $15.99. Both are body-safe, easy to clean and a low-risk way to work out what you like before spending more.

How much should a first vibrator cost in NZ?

Between $17 and $50 covers most sensible first buys. A $16.99 bullet, a $26.99 rabbit or a $46.99 Satisfyer Pro 2 are all genuine starting points. Spending more buys quieter motors, better battery life and app control rather than a fundamentally different experience.