Prostate Massager

Prostate massagers are designed to stimulate the prostate gland — often referred to as the P-spot — delivering deep, full-body pleasure that feels entirely different from external stimulation. For many New Zealand adults, discovering prostate play is a breakthrough in sexual confidence, heightened sensation and richer, longer-lasting orgasms. A prostate massager provides direct, targeted stimulation to one of the most sensitive areas of the body, unlocking a type of pleasure that many describe as “stronger than any orgasm they’ve experienced before.”

At Naughtyhut, our Prostate Massagers collection features everything from gentle beginner-friendly toys to advanced vibrating devices, remote-control toys for couples, curved designs that hit the P-spot effortlessly, and premium silicone models built for comfort and safety. Whether you're new to prostate play or seeking a powerful upgrade, our selection offers curated, body-safe options that suit all experience levels.

What Is a Prostate Massager?

A prostate massager is an anal toy shaped to stimulate the prostate gland — located a few centimetres inside the rectum, toward the front of the body. These toys usually feature:

a curved tip for precise targeting,
a slim neck for comfort,
a flared base for safety,
and an external arm for perineum stimulation.

This dual-action design makes prostate massagers incredibly effective. When inserted, the curved head rests naturally against the prostate, creating direct pressure that intensifies as the toy moves or vibrates. When combined with perineum stimulation on the outside, the entire pelvic region becomes highly responsive — often leading to stronger orgasms, full-body waves of pleasure and deeper sexual satisfaction.

Why Prostate Stimulation Feels So Good

The prostate contains thousands of nerve endings. When stimulated, it sends powerful pleasure signals through the pelvic floor, abdomen and genitals. The sensations are often described as:

deep,
pulsing,
warm,
throbbing,
and intensely pleasurable.

Unlike penile stimulation, prostate pleasure builds from within — creating longer, more intense orgasms that often involve the entire body. Many users experience:

stronger ejaculation,
hands-free orgasms,
multiple orgasms,
and full-body waves of sensation.

For this reason, prostate massagers have become extremely popular among men, couples and anyone with a prostate who wants to explore deeper forms of pleasure.

Types of Prostate Massagers

Naughtyhut offers a wide range of prostate toys to match different comfort levels and goals. Each type provides its own sensation style and intensity.

1. Beginner Prostate Massagers

Beginner models are slim, soft, and gently curved. They’re designed for easy insertion and comfortable use during early exploration. These toys focus on relaxation, light pressure and building confidence without overwhelming intensity.

2. Curved Silicone P-Spot Massagers

Silicone prostate toys are flexible, body-safe and comfortable. Their curved shape ensures consistent, direct contact with the prostate — making them reliable for both solo and partner play.

3. Vibrating Prostate Massagers

Vibrating massagers deliver deep internal stimulation that dramatically enhances prostate pleasure. Many include multiple vibration modes, pulsation rhythms and intensity levels.

Vibrating toys are ideal for:

hands-free pleasure,
powerful prostate orgasms,
adding intensity during sex or foreplay.

4. Remote-Control Prostate Massagers

These toys are extremely popular for couples. A partner can control intensity, patterns and speed — perfect for teasing, foreplay or long-distance play.

5. Dual-Stimulation P-Spot Toys

These feature both:

a curved internal arm for prostate stimulation,
and a vibrating external arm for perineum stimulation.

The combined sensations create powerful orgasmic intensity.

6. Thrusting or Rotating Prostate Toys

For advanced users, some toys include thrusting shafts or rotating heads that mimic the motion of a skilled partner. These deliver precision stimulation that can lead to rapid orgasms.

How to Use a Prostate Massager Correctly

Using a prostate toy becomes easier and more pleasurable when you understand the right technique. Whether you're a total beginner or upgrading to something more advanced, these guidelines ensure a safe, comfortable and deeply enjoyable experience.

Start With Relaxation

The anal muscles respond best when relaxed. Spend time warming up with:

deep breathing,
a hot shower,
stroking or masturbation,
or gentle massage around the area.

A relaxed body significantly improves comfort and pleasure.

Use Plenty of Lubricant

The anus does not self-lubricate, so lubricant is essential. Apply a thick water-based lube to:

the toy,
your entrance,
and your fingers.

Never skip lubrication — it makes the experience smooth and safe.

Insert Slowly and Gently

Prostate stimulation is about pressure, not force. Insert the toy slowly while breathing deeply. Let your body open naturally instead of pushing.

Angle Toward the Belly Button

To reach the prostate, angle the toy upward, toward the navel. The P-spot is located about 4–6 cm inside the rectum on the front wall.

Explore Movement

Once inserted, experiment with:

rocking,
gentle thrusting,
tightening and relaxing your pelvic floor,
or simply holding still and letting the toy rest on the prostate.

Vibrating models can do most of the work for you.

Who Can Use a Prostate Massager?

Anyone with a prostate can enjoy a prostate massager — regardless of sexual orientation, relationship style or experience level. Prostate pleasure is simply a form of body-based enjoyment, and many users discover its benefits later in life.

Prostate toys are enjoyed by:

straight men,
gay and bisexual men,
trans women and non-binary people with prostates,
solo players looking to explore new sensations,
couples who want to add excitement to intimacy.

Prostate stimulation is natural, healthy and incredibly pleasurable — and more New Zealanders than ever are exploring it confidently.

Benefits of Using a Prostate Massager

Prostate massagers offer benefits that go far beyond pleasure. Many users report improvements in sexual confidence, pelvic floor health and overall sexual satisfaction. Whether used solo or with a partner, these toys unlock sensations that reshape how people experience intimacy.

1. More Intense Orgasms

Prostate stimulation intensifies the body’s natural orgasmic response. Vibrations and pressure on the P-spot often create orgasms that feel:

full-body,
longer-lasting,
deeper,
and more powerful.

Many men describe prostate orgasms as “completely different from regular orgasms” because they come from inside the body rather than just external stimulation.

2. Hands-Free Orgasms

One of the most unique sexual experiences is achieving orgasm without touching the penis at all. When the prostate is stimulated correctly, the pelvic floor contracts involuntarily — creating intense waves of pleasure.

3. Enhanced Blood Flow and Sexual Health

Prostate massagers encourage healthy blood flow to the pelvic region, which can support:

better erectile function,
increased sensitivity,
reduced tension,
and improved sexual stamina.

4. Better Ejaculation Control

Regular prostate stimulation helps users understand their pelvic floor movements more clearly. This awareness improves control over ejaculation and can reduce premature ejaculation for some individuals.

5. Relaxation and Stress Relief

The deep internal pressure of a prostate toy stimulates nerves that help relax the pelvic region. Many users say the experience feels grounding and stress-reducing.

Solo Play With Prostate Massagers

Solo use is one of the most intimate and rewarding ways to explore prostate pleasure. It allows you to learn your body, understand your sensations and build confidence in your ability to stimulate the P-spot comfortably.

How to Start

Choose a small curved silicone massager
Use plenty of lubricant
Insert slowly and breathe deeply
Experiment with rocking motions
Try light pelvic floor contractions

Many users begin by pairing the massager with hand stimulation, then eventually discover the power of hands-free orgasms.

Adding Vibration

Vibrations add richness and intensity to prostate massage. Even low-power vibrations can stimulate the prostate beautifully — especially pulsing or rolling patterns.

Beginners often prefer steady vibration, while intermediate users enjoy stronger, more rhythmic modes.

Couples Play With Prostate Massagers

Prostate toys are extremely couple-friendly and can transform partnered intimacy. They add novelty, closeness and new pleasure pathways.

Role of the Giving Partner

A partner may:

insert the toy gently,
control the vibration,
guide thrusting or rocking,
stimulate the perineum externally,
perform oral or hand play simultaneously.

Shared exploration builds trust and communication, deepening connection.

Remote-Control Prostate Toys for Couples

Remote prostate toys are incredibly popular with partners who enjoy teasing or interactive intimacy. A partner can change vibration levels secretly, slowly or dramatically — making the experience playful and exciting.

Prostate Play During Intercourse

Wearing a prostate massager during intercourse intensifies pelvic contractions and increases sensitivity. Many users report explosive orgasms when internal stimulation is combined with external play.

How Prostate Massagers Work With Anatomy

The prostate is located just inside the rectum, near the pelvic floor muscles. These muscles respond strongly to pressure and vibration. When stimulated, they contract rhythmically — enhancing pleasure and increasing ejaculatory intensity.

A properly shaped prostate massager targets:

the prostate gland,
the perineum,
the pelvic floor,
and surrounding nerves.

This creates full-region stimulation that feels deep, warm, satisfying and powerful.

Best Positions for Prostate Stimulation

Certain positions provide easier access and better angles for prostate pleasure.

1. Side-Lying Position

The classic beginner position — lie on your side with knees slightly bent. This relaxes the pelvic floor and allows easy insertion.

2. On Your Back With Knees Up

Excellent for angling the toy toward the prostate. Many users find the most control in this position.

3. Doggystyle

Useful for partner-assisted stimulation or deeper penetration with thrusting toys.

4. Standing With One Leg Raised

Popular for shower play or advanced solo exploration.

How to Choose the Right Prostate Massager

Picking the right toy ensures comfort, confidence and intense pleasure. Consider these factors:

1. Size

Small: beginner-friendly
Medium: more fullness and stronger contact
Large: advanced users only

2. Shape

The best toys feature a curved, bulbous head that naturally presses against the prostate.

3. Flexibility

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Benefits of Using a Prostate Massager

1. More Intense Orgasms

Prostate stimulation intensifies the body’s natural orgasmic response. Vibrations and pressure on the P-spot often create orgasms that feel:

full-body,
longer-lasting,
deeper,
and more powerful.

Many men describe prostate orgasms as “completely different from regular orgasms” because they come from inside the body rather than just external stimulation.

2. Hands-Free Orgasms

3. Enhanced Blood Flow and Sexual Health

Prostate massagers encourage healthy blood flow to the pelvic region, which can support:

better erectile function,
increased sensitivity,
reduced tension,
and improved sexual stamina.

4. Better Ejaculation Control

5. Relaxation and Stress Relief

The deep internal pressure of a prostate toy stimulates nerves that help relax the pelvic region. Many users say the experience feels grounding and stress-reducing.

Solo Play With Prostate Massagers

How to Start

Choose a small curved silicone massager
Use plenty of lubricant
Insert slowly and breathe deeply
Experiment with rocking motions
Try light pelvic floor contractions

Many users begin by pairing the massager with hand stimulation, then eventually discover the power of hands-free orgasms.

Adding Vibration

Vibrations add richness and intensity to prostate massage. Even low-power vibrations can stimulate the prostate beautifully — especially pulsing or rolling patterns.

Beginners often prefer steady vibration, while intermediate users enjoy stronger, more rhythmic modes.

Couples Play With Prostate Massagers

Prostate toys are extremely couple-friendly and can transform partnered intimacy. They add novelty, closeness and new pleasure pathways.

Role of the Giving Partner

A partner may:

insert the toy gently,
control the vibration,
guide thrusting or rocking,
stimulate the perineum externally,
perform oral or hand play simultaneously.

Shared exploration builds trust and communication, deepening connection.

Remote-Control Prostate Toys for Couples

Prostate Play During Intercourse

Wearing a prostate massager during intercourse intensifies pelvic contractions and increases sensitivity. Many users report explosive orgasms when internal stimulation is combined with external play.

How Prostate Massagers Work With Anatomy

A properly shaped prostate massager targets:

the prostate gland,
the perineum,
the pelvic floor,
and surrounding nerves.

This creates full-region stimulation that feels deep, warm, satisfying and powerful.

Best Positions for Prostate Stimulation

Certain positions provide easier access and better angles for prostate pleasure.

1. Side-Lying Position

The classic beginner position — lie on your side with knees slightly bent. This relaxes the pelvic floor and allows easy insertion.

2. On Your Back With Knees Up

Excellent for angling the toy toward the prostate. Many users find the most control in this position.

3. Doggystyle

Useful for partner-assisted stimulation or deeper penetration with thrusting toys.

4. Standing With One Leg Raised

Popular for shower play or advanced solo exploration.

How to Choose the Right Prostate Massager

Picking the right toy ensures comfort, confidence and intense pleasure. Consider these factors:

1. Size

Small: beginner-friendly
Medium: more fullness and stronger contact
Large: advanced users only

2. Shape

The best toys feature a curved, bulbous head that naturally presses against the prostate.

3. Flexibility

Silicone toys are flexible and comfortable. Firmer toys offer more defined pressure.

4. Vibration Strength

Stronger isn’t always better — beginners often enjoy low and medium vibration modes. Intermediate users may prefer more intense patterns.

5. Base or Handle

A safe toy must have a flared base or curved handle to prevent over-insertion.

6. External Stimulation Arm

Many massagers feature an external arm for perineum stimulation — adding dual sensations that magnify pleasure.

Why Silicone Is the Most Popular Material

Premium silicone prostate toys are soft, smooth, clean, hygienic and body-safe. They warm quickly to the body and offer gentle flexibility.

Silicone is:

easy to clean,
non-porous,
comfortable for long wear,
safer for beginners.

Stainless steel toys exist too, but they are heavier and preferred by advanced users seeking intense pressure.

Using Prostate Massagers With Other Toys

Many users enjoy combining prostate stimulation with other forms of pleasure. This creates “dual stimulation” — one of the most powerful ways to intensify orgasms.

Prostate Massager + Penis Stimulation

This is the most popular combination. As the prostate builds deep internal pleasure, stroking the penis adds surface-level stimulation, creating a blended sensation that many describe as overwhelming in the best way.

Prostate Massager + Vibrating Cock Ring

Cock rings help maintain erections and boost sensitivity. When combined with prostate vibration, the entire pelvic region becomes highly reactive — making orgasms stronger and more satisfying.

Prostate Massager + Anal Beads

Intermediate users sometimes experiment with gentle beads alongside a small prostate toy for rhythmic stimulation. The beads create movement as the prostate massager applies steady pressure.

Prostate Massager + Partner Interaction

A partner can:

stroke,
tease,
apply external vibrations,
or guide movement of the toy.

The shared experience heightens arousal and encourages deeper intimacy.

Remote-Control Prostate Toys for Long-Distance Couples

Remote-control prostate massagers have become incredibly popular in New Zealand — especially for couples in long-distance relationships or those who enjoy teasing play.

Some toys include:

wireless remotes with long range,
app-controlled features,
pattern customisation,
special “partner control” modes.

These allow partners to control pleasure levels from across the room or even from another city. They bring excitement, anticipation and emotional connection to long-distance intimacy.

Building Confidence With Prostate Play

Many New Zealanders exploring prostate pleasure for the first time worry about comfort, insertion or “doing it wrong.” These feelings are completely normal — and they fade quickly as users become more familiar with their bodies.

Tips for Building Confidence

Start with a small, flexible silicone toy
Use more lubricant than you think you need
Insert slowly and breathe through tension
Experiment with shallow penetration first
Learn your favourite vibration patterns
Understand that prostate stimulation is natural and healthy

Confidence grows with each session — and once prostate orgasms are experienced, most users never look back.

How Long to Use a Prostate Massager

There is no universal duration for prostate play — it depends entirely on comfort and the type of toy being used.

Short Sessions (5–10 minutes)

Great for beginners and for warming up the pelvic floor.

Medium Sessions (10–20 minutes)

Ideal for discovering what movements, angles and patterns feel best.

Extended Sessions (20–40 minutes)

Suitable for experienced users or vibrating toys designed for longer wear. Internal toys with external stimulation arms can be comfortable for extended use.

Always stop if you feel soreness or tension — prostate play should be deeply pleasurable and never forced.

Best Lubricants for Prostate Toys

Lubrication is essential for safe, comfortable prostate play. The best lubricant depends on the toy material and the duration of your session.

Water-Based Lubes

Safe for all prostate toys — including silicone, metal and ABS plastic. These lubes wash off easily and are perfect for beginners.

Thick Water-Based Lubes

These provide long-lasting glide and cushion, making them ideal for deeper toys or longer play.

Silicone-Based Lubes

Only recommended for metal prostate toys. Silicone lube lasts the longest and provides the smoothest glide, but it may damage silicone toys.

Cleaning & Hygiene for Prostate Massagers

Cleaning your toy properly is essential for anal health and longevity of the product.

How to Clean Silicone Prostate Toys

Wash with warm water and mild soap
Use a toy cleaner for extra hygiene
Rinse thoroughly around ridges and curves
Allow to air dry completely before storage

How to Clean Vibrating or Remote-Control Toys

Do not submerge the charging port or electronics
Use a damp cloth and mild soap
Use toy spray to sanitise safely
Dry thoroughly before recharging

How to Store Your Toy

Keep in a clean, dry pouch
Store away from direct sunlight
Avoid contact with other silicone toys to prevent material reaction

Signs You’re Ready for a More Advanced Prostate Toy

As your comfort grows, you may find yourself craving more intensity or variety. You’re ready to upgrade when:

you can comfortably insert and move beginner toys,
you desire stronger pressure or deeper sensations,
your orgasms feel easier to achieve,
vibration feels more enjoyable and less overwhelming,
you’re curious about thrusting or rotating toys.

Intermediate and advanced toys open the door to deeper, more complex forms of prostate pleasure.

Prostate Massagers for Experienced Users

Advanced users often seek toys that provide:

stronger vibration power,
heavier weight,
more defined curvature,
thicker shafts,
dual or triple stimulation,
rotating or thrusting heads.

These features create intense stimulation that can lead to rapid orgasm buildup and full-body climaxes that last several seconds longer than typical ejaculatory orgasms.

Combining Prostate Play With Kegel / Pelvic Floor Exercises

Prostate stimulation naturally works the pelvic floor muscles. When combined with intentional Kegel exercises, users often experience:

increased orgasm control,
stronger contractions,
higher sensitivity,
improved ejaculation force,
deeper “pulsing” orgasms.

This combination is one of the most effective natural ways to enhance sexual performance and pleasure.

Safety Tips for Prostate Play

Prostate play is extremely safe when done properly. Following a few simple guidelines ensures comfort, confidence and injury-free pleasure.

Always use toys with a flared base
Use plenty of water-based lubricant
Insert slowly, never forcefully
Stop immediately if you feel sharp pain
Avoid using toys when the area is sore or irritated
Clean toys before and after every use

Listening to your body is the most important part of prostate stimulation. Pleasure should build naturally — not be rushed.

What a Prostate Orgasm Feels Like

Many people describe a prostate orgasm as one of the most intense and memorable sensations they've ever experienced. Unlike traditional penile stimulation, which peaks quickly, prostate pleasure builds slowly and deeply — then releases in powerful waves.

Common sensations include:

warmth radiating through the abdomen,
deep internal pulsing,
full-body vibrations,
shaking or involuntary movements,
longer climax duration,
a sensation of total release.

Some users experience “dry orgasms,” where the body climaxes without ejaculation — this is completely normal and often extremely pleasurable.

How to Achieve Hands-Free Prostate Orgasms

Hands-free orgasms occur when the prostate is stimulated intensely enough to trigger climax without direct penile touch. This is one of the most sought-after prostate experiences.

Tips for Hands-Free Success

Use a curved toy with firm pressure
Pick a steady vibration pattern
Relax your pelvic floor instead of clenching
Rock your hips gently
Breathe deeply and slowly

Many users report that the first hands-free orgasm happens unexpectedly during slow buildup — not forced effort. Once your body recognises the sensation, hands-free orgasms become easier to achieve over time.

Prostate Play for Couples Exploring New Dynamics

Couples often use prostate toys to add variety, intimacy and deeper connection to their bedroom activities. This type of play encourages trust, communication and shared exploration.

Why Couples Love It

It creates new sensations the receiving partner cannot create alone
It mixes power play, teasing and anticipation
It strengthens emotional and sexual connection
It allows the giving partner to feel more involved

Whether playful, sensual or dominant, couples can adapt prostate play to fit their preferred dynamic.

Best Prostate Toys for Beginners

For users starting their journey, the ideal first toy is:

slim and gently curved,
soft medical-grade silicone,
non-vibrating or mild vibration,
small bulb with a narrow neck.

This shape provides easy insertion and comfortable pressure without overwhelming sensations.

Best Prostate Toys for Advanced Users

Once you’re familiar with prostate stimulation, upgrading to a more complex toy unlocks intense pleasure.

powerful vibrating models,
dual-motor designs,
remote-control massagers,
thicker or more heavily curved toys,
steel toys for firm, heavy pressure,
rotating or thrusting models.

These toys deliver pinpoint pressure and rhythmic internal movement that can trigger multiple orgasms.

Prostate Toys & Long-Term Sexual Wellness

Beyond pleasure, regular prostate stimulation can contribute to long-term sexual wellness. Many men find that prostate massage:

reduces pelvic tension,
improves erection quality,
enhances arousal sensitivity,
supports healthier ejaculation,
releases built-up muscular stress.

It is both a pleasure practice and a wellness routine — similar to pelvic floor training or massage therapy.

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Final Thoughts: Why Prostate Massagers Are a Must-Have for NZ Men

Prostate massagers offer a unique combination of pleasure, wellness and exploration that no other toy can match. They unlock deep internal sensations, create powerful orgasms and open new levels of intimacy — whether used solo or with a partner.

At Naughtyhut, we offer a curated range of high-quality silicone, vibrating, remote-control and beginner-friendly prostate toys to help every New Zealander explore prostate stimulation safely and confidently.

Start your journey today and discover why prostate massagers are becoming one of the most popular pleasure products across New Zealand.